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Decluttering......155 on the 9th -  & Story of the Dead Sticks

8/7/2016

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I've started working my way about the living/dining room, starting to the left of the doorway. I began with this bookcase - here's the before pic:
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When I was done just tossing things I no longer wanted from this bookcase, here's what was left (and one of the baskets is empty):

After that, I started working on another bookcase, but I'll leave the pics of that for tomorrow, as I got tired and will finish it up then.

There was lots of wading through the contents of binder, ditching no longer needed papers and consolidating the rest.

There was also a lot of letting go of things I know, realistically, I will never use, or things which, well I can just live without!

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Plus I was reminded of the story of the dead sticks. A few years ago, my friend and I both read a book from the library (Lessons in letting go : confessions of a hoarder by Corinne Grant); it was the story of one woman who began the journey of letting go of lots of clutter. (As I remember it..) at one point, she needed to move apartments, and a friend came to help her pack and move. As he's emptying the closet into boxes, he holds up something and says "Why do you have this?" She replies "Oh, that's the bouquet my boyfriend gave me at our prom!" He looks at it in confusion and says "But it's just a bunch of dead sticks!?!" And that's when she realised...yes, actually, it is just dead sticks. The bouquet had long ago dried out, and then disintegrated. You couldn't tell what it really was anymore, and it certainly served no useful purpose. After all, she could remember the good times without the dead sticks. She tossed them out, and vowed from then on, not to keep any more dead sticks.
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Today I realised I had some "dead sticks." For example, in 2014 I spent a ridiculous sum on an absolutely gorgeous planner in a purple (my favourite!) leather zip-up cover with a flower on it. It was soooo pretty! Surely it would make me super organised. It didn't! I hardly used it. And of course, 2014 was a while back. There are no extraordinary notes or memories recorded in that pretty diary. Why do I still have it? It was too pretty to throw out - but it's not like I'm going to use it again!

And how about all those packets of fancy copier sheets my mother passed on to me 10 years ago, and I haven't used yet (you know, glossy photo paper, T-shirt transfers, address labels in an ugly format....)?? Why do I still have them??


Dead sticks, people, dead sticks! Time to let them go.

Today I have decluttered the following items:
2 file boxes
6 binders
30 completed school books
7 literature resource books
13 unused school resources to pass on
1 CD-rom Essay Writing set (another dead stick - never been used!)
1 keyboard
1 mouse
2 bags of trash
1 fishbin full of paper for recycling or burning
46 random items from the shelves
6 packs special printer papers
1 clearfile
2 new accounting books (I do this digitally now)
1 hardcover book
1 graph paper refill
1 new visual diary
7 books to sell
6 dictionaries
2 books - first aid and bush craft
1 paintbrush canvas roll
1 spiral bound notebook
1 2014 (dead sticks) purple diary
10 kid's story books
3 kid's educational newspapers
1 basket
1 marble

That's 155 items and a BIG bin full of paper!

It really does feel good to let go! I feel like I'm peeling back lots of layers, to ultimately reveal what is hidden underneath - a life of calm and pleasantness.
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Decluttering....110 on the 8th!

8/7/2016

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According to the decluttering game I'm playing, I'm supposed to declutter 8 items today - but I was on a roll, and ended up decluttering 110 items instead!
It started when I decided to clean out my kitchen utensils drawer...from which I eliminated 33 items - I grabbed an oven tray that is no good any more, and piled 22 junk items in it from the drawer for the trash, and put another 11 items into the donate box for goodwill.
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Then I folded the laundry, and as I was putting it away, decided it was time I tidied up my underwear drawer. I've lost a lot of weight recently, so threw out 2 bras and 19 pairs of undies I don't need any more.
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I've decided that over the next couple of weeks, I'm going to focus on decluttering my living/dining room. I grabbed some obvious don't-needs from the DVDs stack, and then decided it was time I dealt with the box of books in one corner I've been meaning to get rid of. So today I either listed for sale or gave away these 51 books and DVDs.
This evening, I decided to go through the binders off one shelf while watching the end of a DVD mini-series (it will go in tomorrow's toss pile!), and I ended up tossing the contents of 5 binders - which are going in the donate box.
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So that's 110 items (not counting the several hundred pieces of paper from the binders!)
I think I was extra motivated because last night before bed I skimmed back through Leo Babauta's The Simple Guide to a Minimalist Life. Reading books which remind me of all the good reasons to reduce clutter and excess is always good motivation. Leo recommends these overall principals:
  • Omit needless things
  • Identify the essential
  • Make everything count
  • Fill your life with joy
  • Edit, edit!
"Figure out what makes you happy. Get rid of the rest,
so you have room for those important things." Leo

It feels good to let go!
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Decluttering Game - 6th & 7th

7/7/2016

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Between yesterday and today, I have selected 13 more items to toss, give away or sell:
  • A three-ring binder
  • The contents of 5 other binders (the binders themselves have gone into my box of spare binder for reuse when needed)
  • A brand new book
  • A brand new bra
  • 6 DVDs to give away
  • 3 DVDs to sell
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Five for the 5th

5/7/2016

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I'm playing a decluttering game - getting rid of as many items as the day of the month. Today is the 5th, and I've selected 5 more books to toss.
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A Decluttering Game

3/7/2016

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Life is full of seasons. There's the season of youth, the season of being newly married, the season of having young children, the season of homeschooling, and so on. Things never stay the same forever.

My life is entering a new season - in a very short space of time, my eldest has married a beautiful lady and moved 6 hours away, my second has moved out of home, my third has moved to the South Island, my fourth has finished homeschooling, and my youngest has enrolled in a program at a highschool to finish off the end of her schooling. For 25 years I've been a homeschooling mother. Suddenly, I am not. And it is way harder than I thought it would be!

This week I've been thinking about the change of seasons, and preparing for God to do a new thing in my life, whatever that might be. A part of that change is a process of letting go - letting go of the things we don't need any more, the resources for all those "good ideas" we never got around to, the things I meant to do and wished to do, but didn't, and the general clutter that accumulates in a household of 7 busy people. 

It's time, once again, to pare down, streamline, simplify. And for me, it always helps to have a focus or a goal to motivate me. Long time readers will remember that 2 years ago I decided to get rid of 1000 things​ - a seemingly huge goal, but it ended up being more than that.This week, someone posted a link on Facebook to a decluttering game, posted as The Minimalism Game.

In this "game" the idea is to locate and get rid of one item on the 1st of the month, 2 items on the 2nd, 3 on the 3rd and so on right up to 30 items on the 30th of the month. At the end of 30 days, one would therefore have eliminated 465 items. The items can be given away, sold, thrown out - whatever. But they must leave your home and life forever.

Just what I need to focus my general desire to start decluttering! So, this is what I'm going for the month of July. Who knows, I may repeat it every month for a while. I like the slow build up at first, as it gives me time to get in the grove, plus allows time to do other things.

So, on the 1st of July (the day before I read about this game), I had allowed my daughter to select a book to give away to a friend.
On the 2nd of July, I listed 2 books to give away on a local Helping Hands page where items are freely given to help others. One has now been given away, and the other is in the box I will drop at the local thrift store once it fills up.
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On the 3rd of July, a Sunday, I took a break, but listed those 3 items to give away first on the 4th - a stick blender multi-set, a greeting card notebook, and another book.
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Today is the 4th - so far I have thrown out a pile of damaged or odd socks (11 of them, but I'm just going to count them as one item), two plastic shopping bags which will go to the thrift store (counted as 1), a pair of cut off shorts, and am about to list a book for sale on Trade Me.
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In the process, I've sorted out the sock pile, cleaned out one bookcase, and tossed out quite a bit of trash (not counted, though it could be).

I'm going to post updates each day.

How about you? Do you want to join me in playing this decluttering game? You could either throw out 10 things today and be all caught up, or just jump in where you are, and get rid of 4 items today, and then 5 tomorrow, and so on.
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